Birth moms- how is/how would you like you relationship w/ child to be?

I am a mother not a "birth" mother but to answer your question I would have been happy just to get on with my son. Reality is we either got on very well as we do have a lot in common or it was that bad we wouldn't talk as he would accuse me of lying/doing and saying things he'd actually done. It got so bad and his false accusations got so serious that we no longer have a relationship.